Pro and cons of dating
Raise your hand if you’ve spent five minutes on Tinder and then your weird clock actually tells you that five hours have passed.
As trying as relationships can be at times, I attempt to stay positive about the potential for love and compassion in people. They've probably also spent time around those same family and friends and will nod right along as you rant. You don't need advice or their thirty-two step plan for how to make your life better again, you just want to rant and rave about whoever that did whatever and why you're pissed.It's horrible when the other person just doesn't get that and insists on inserting their two cents. Hopefully, this is unintentional in all your relationships, but it's inevitable.Online dating certainly is a grab bag of experiences. I like to start with the negatives so we can end on a high note. The solution: Stick to people in your league/level from their looks, age, occupation, location — it will increase your chances.
On the one hand, you hear horror stories of psychos and unsolicited d*** pics, and on the other hand, you personally know several couples who have met and married over the thing. You’re never reminded of the fallibility of human kind as you are when you are online dating. And don’t put stock into anything or anyone until you’ve met. The paradox of choice teaches us that the more options we have, the unhappier we are and the more paralyzed we become to choose. Sure there are lots of people online and the grass can always feel greener for another date.Online dating is a spoke-in-the-wheel to help you find them.