Dating work plan
A child isn’t helped by a parent who makes all decisions for them.
A child doesn’t grow into a responsible adult with parents who protect them and guide them every step of the way.
Than when you meet each other it will make the process flow just a little bit easier!
Aukelien van Abbema has a degree in Psychology and in Philosophy and owns a privately held practice as a licensed counsellor in Emotionally Focussed Therapy (EFT) for both couples and singles.
Can he work with them nonetheless, does he make most of our flawed decision making or has he even calculated those decisions in when planning our lives?
God guiding our lives works pretty much the same way, I’d say.
On the one hand there is his active involvement in our lives, his care, his love and his provision.
And people do this with success every day – just read the success stories at Christian Connection!
And yes, ask God for his blessing on that process every day, ask him to give you the courage to step out, pray for good connections and happy meetings and great dates. Pray that they will develop into mature adults that dare to step out and connect like you are practising to step out and connect.
Moreover, I believe God sees us as those adults more than as helpless two year olds.