Dating site have an instant message
If another member sends you an invitation, you will see a box come down from the top of the Mingle2 page.In that box, you can choose whether to accept or decline the offer to chat.If you click the button and choose one of the actions from the drop-down menu, that person will receive your nudge.
The person does NOT have 'Instant Messaging' turned ON.
Or, the member may not have time to talk and, therefore, refused your request.
In either case, you might want to try again at another time…or find another member to chat with.
hii welcome to mingle2 and to instant msg just go to the profile of the person u want to instant message there will be an option of instant msg click it and a window will open launching av messenger then wait for the person to accept ur request Turn ON IM) Then you would go to the profile of the person with whom you wish to chat.
Under their picture there is an orange button 'Instant Message' which you would click on and the request to Instant Message is sent.
You can block another member from contacting you in a number of ways.