Dating post op personals
Surgery may well be something that changes you so fundamentally that your confidence etc is what then attracts the right sort of guy. I Feel like getting something done as serious as SRS for the same of other people when you are not 100% sure about it is certainly a wrong decision.
I'm currently preop/non op, but I acknowledge the fact that maybe one day I might reconsider getting SRS because I want it for myself and not because my dating life is failing or whatever it is that is influenced by other people.
She says "I'm not going to be anybody's fetish, experiment, or side dish, I don't care if he'll openly take me to Arby's or not, fuck him, or rather ." It got to the point where she tried to date guys by pretending that her penis did not get erections anymore and that she didn't like being touched there.
Despite getting prior warning, she says the amount of guys who would try to fondle, suck or otherwise manipulate her there were probably around 3/5. Now her friend who is post-op considers it easier to date.
Partially about being pre op, like you I had some men interested in me that ended up having girlfriends or wives.Now when you're preop, you can get away with being 5/10 because you have that uniqueness that is not as common in cis women.