Dating man ten years older
How does a ten year age gap affect our relationship?
I think the answer depends on the stages of our relationship.
Our problems are relative and the reality is, a lot of the day to day struggles you encounter in your early twenties may be different in your early thirties.
It can be difficult for your significant other to fully understand your perspective if they have been removed from the same struggles for years.
I was sick of guys who saw me as a blonde barbie kind of girl, and Jordan was just the opposite.
He saw past everything superficial and seemingly appreciated my soul.
I don’t feel any sense of urgency when it comes to investments and house hunting and owning furniture not from Ikea.
I didn’t know how to pay my bills on time, or clean an oven and my bedspread was from the children’s section of Target.
Though I’d always thought of myself as mentally and emotionally mature I still saw 30 as “grown-up” and on the inside I felt too similar to a lost little girl.
), but rather that I couldn’t imagine our lives would mesh well together.
I was a full time nanny, he was the owner of a construction company.
At first people would ask me if our age difference was bothersome, if it was difficult and/or how it affected our relationship.